How to Win an Argument with Your Spouse
Category: Couples &
Marriage
...I believe in arguing with your spouse—in
fighting for your marriage. Disagreements
and arguments are inevitable, but they don’t need to
become angry screaming matches or endlessly tiresome
debates if both spouses are willing to embrace one
simple principle: The purpose of arguing is to
understand each other, not to
defeat each other. Both parties
automatically lose if either expects the argument to
end with a winner and a loser or with one proven
right and the other proven wrong. One of my favorite
sayings is: "You can’t be married and right at the
same time"...