Matter-of-Fact Parenting

...I believe a matter-of-fact approach keeps parents from getting caught in a web of negative emotion with their children. Emotions are contagious. When parents strongly react to their children’s negative behavior with fear or anger they wind up delivering long speeches or making accusations and threats. This is not only upsetting for everyone involved; it is also ineffective. I believe effective parenting involves 1) common sense 2) observations and comments spoken in a calm matter-of-fact tone, and 3) positive encouragement...