Parenting Styles: Optimistic, Pessimistic or Realistic?

...I try to find a balance between my natural optimism and natural pessimism about human nature. Whenever possible, I try to be optimistic and make it clear to my children that I anticipate the positive. Children thrive on the positive. I resist pessimism, but I know that my children won’t always do the right thing and it is my job to provide them with limits and guidance...