Getting From Rules to Moral Character

...The path to moral character is never straight and is paved with stones that will cause our children to stumble at times. That’s why it’s important for us to stand by ready to offer whatever help is needed to get them through the difficult times. Sometimes we need to pull out the old rulebook and remind them of our family expectations; and sometimes we need to sit back and trust that our children’s inner guidance system will redirect them without our intervention. Knowing when to “lay down the law” and when to “back off” is the mark of a skilled parent...