Setting Limits Without Spanking

...I never advise using physical punishment, but I’m not inclined to criticize parents who occasionally deliver an open handed swat on their child’s fanny as long as it doesn’t happen more than a few times a year, only if their child is over two and under six, and only if the parents are in control of their own emotions when they swat. The problem is that most spankers use it as a form of punishment and an outlet for their own anger. This is a problem for several reasons...